Freaking HYSERICAL.
Fulling a Lifelong Dreams is... Fulfilling!
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Friday, February 27, 2009
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Waiting to inhale
This Friday will be one month since I quit smoking. I really can’t believe it’s been a month already. The cravings are gone, and what I am left with are basically urges; little, intense urges. I usually have one or two a day, and they don’t last very long at all, but they are powerful and the smoking memory is really is forceful.
The dreams are something else, too. When I was a smoker, I never had dreams where I was smoking in them. But now that I have quit, I have them all the time, and the shame I feel in the dream is so real that when I wake up I think to myself “Aww – why did I smoke?” and it takes me a second or two to realize it was a dream. But one of the most curious things that I have discovered about smoking – or not smoking – is that when you are a smoker, the act of waiting is always an opportunity to smoke. It’s a happy little discovery. Waiting for a friend outside a coffee shop? Light up. Ten minutes early for an appointment? Light up. Waiting for a co-worker to get off the phone so you can talk to him? Go downstairs and light up. Now, I know former smokers who swear that the act of getting in the car flips their smoke switch, but the car has been a piece of cake for me. The waiting has been excruciating. It’s a huge trigger for me. This is where gum is my lifesaver. Without gum, I couldn’t wait for anything or anybody.
So I tip my hat to you Wrigley’s. Without you, I’d have to make sure I was always perfectly on time, and that ain’t never gonna happen.
The dreams are something else, too. When I was a smoker, I never had dreams where I was smoking in them. But now that I have quit, I have them all the time, and the shame I feel in the dream is so real that when I wake up I think to myself “Aww – why did I smoke?” and it takes me a second or two to realize it was a dream. But one of the most curious things that I have discovered about smoking – or not smoking – is that when you are a smoker, the act of waiting is always an opportunity to smoke. It’s a happy little discovery. Waiting for a friend outside a coffee shop? Light up. Ten minutes early for an appointment? Light up. Waiting for a co-worker to get off the phone so you can talk to him? Go downstairs and light up. Now, I know former smokers who swear that the act of getting in the car flips their smoke switch, but the car has been a piece of cake for me. The waiting has been excruciating. It’s a huge trigger for me. This is where gum is my lifesaver. Without gum, I couldn’t wait for anything or anybody.
So I tip my hat to you Wrigley’s. Without you, I’d have to make sure I was always perfectly on time, and that ain’t never gonna happen.
Monday, February 23, 2009
If you weren't convinced that your girlfriends are special...
This should do the trick. It made me tear up a little...and it made me think about my best friend Sue. Not because we're so different, but because she's a real...WOOF!
Ha, ha..love you, girl.
Ha, ha..love you, girl.
Those crazy Germans
My mom always told me that nobody likes a showoff, but showing off is the least of this kid's problems...
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Rain drops on roses and anal glands on kittens...
Last night I wound up spending 3 hours in the animal ER. Without going into too much detail, my cat Bud was having trouble “going”. In fact, he was trying to “go” everywhere except in his litter box. I got spooked and took him to the ER (in an ice storm, none the less) because I was afraid of letting him be for the night and waking up to a dead cat. (Don’t groan…it happens).
First and foremost, he’s not blocked. They took x-rays and his bowels and bladder are clear. The vet said more than likely he’s got anal gland issues, and the swollen glands lead him to believe he’s got to “go” all the time. When she told me this I remembered how the other day I saw him scooting across my living room rug. It was one of the funniest things I had ever seen in my life. I’ve seen dogs do that shit, but never a cat. And he was really fast! He went whizzing by me dragging his ass on the rug at warp speed – and I just laughed. It looked kinda like this…
Anyway, I'm $200.00 poorer, and lacking 3 hours sleep, and I still need to take him to his own vet tomorrow. I'm guessing Bud is going to have quite an exam tomorrow and he will probably blame me for letting people violate him. Poor little guy.
First and foremost, he’s not blocked. They took x-rays and his bowels and bladder are clear. The vet said more than likely he’s got anal gland issues, and the swollen glands lead him to believe he’s got to “go” all the time. When she told me this I remembered how the other day I saw him scooting across my living room rug. It was one of the funniest things I had ever seen in my life. I’ve seen dogs do that shit, but never a cat. And he was really fast! He went whizzing by me dragging his ass on the rug at warp speed – and I just laughed. It looked kinda like this…
Anyway, I'm $200.00 poorer, and lacking 3 hours sleep, and I still need to take him to his own vet tomorrow. I'm guessing Bud is going to have quite an exam tomorrow and he will probably blame me for letting people violate him. Poor little guy.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Phoning it in
This morning I scared the crap out of myself. No, I didn’t have a near miss car collision (the term “near miss” is misleading, shouldn’t it be a “near hit”?) or choke on a peach pit or anything like that. I got on the train today, put my pass into the pass holder, and then went for my Blackberry to check my e-mail as I do every morning. However, there was a problem. A BIG problem.
HOLY CRAP I LEFT MY PHONE AT HOME.
I began to panic and I broke out in a cold sweat. What if someone needs to reach me? What if I need to reach someone while I’m not near a land line? How will I keep in touch all day? As I sat there contemplating a day without my Blackberry, I began to try to remember the last time I was out in the world without a phone. 1997? 1996? Back when cell phones were new, and people only had them “in case of an emergency” my dad got the whole family bag phones. Remember the bag phone? It was freaking enormous, therefore rendering it an immobile phone. To carry it anywhere was like carrying a second briefcase, and twice as heavy. I had that phone in my car until probably 1995 or 1996, when my car was broken into on Sawyer Avenue and the bag phone was stolen by thugs. I figured the thugs would be easy to spot, lugging around a bag phone to make their drug deals. Oh well.
Regardless, up until 1996 or 1997 when I got my first StarTac phone, (which was totally portable, but only held a charge for like, 8 hours) when I went out into the world, I was unreachable. Yes – totally unreachable. Remember when we were kids, and you’d call a friend up only to be told they were “out”. Damn! She’s OUT!!!! When will she be back?? Oh man…I guess I will….HAVE. TO. WAIT.
And wait we did. Or even worse than the waiting for someone to get home was the dreaded busy signal. Do kids today even know what a busy signal sounds like? The advent of call waiting killed the busy signal. The busy signal did enjoy a brief resurgence, however, in the early 1990’s when dial-up internet was king. You’d be trying to get a hold of someone forever, only to be told that they had been chatting on AOL for 3 hours. Oh busy signal…we hardly knew ye.
A day at the mall was never interrupted by fighting children, inquisitive bosses, even more inquisitive mothers, or boundless e-mails from Horchow and FTD. And on the way home, you could listen to your music as loud as you wanted, because you didn’t have to constantly be listening for a ring tone. Hell, there was no such thing as a ring tone. You had to blindly pick up the phone and say hello to whoever was on the other end of the line, because you didn’t know who it was. It could be your best friend calling to tell you that the cute boy from gym class really likes you, or it could be your principal looking for your parents. Who knew?
As I finally talked myself off the “I left my phone at home” ledge, I realized that it would all be ok. One day without the Blackberry won’t kill me. It may aggravate me, but that’s ok. There are definitely WAY more important things in life. I reached into the center well of my purse for the book I’m currently reading (Ann Rule’s “Green River Running Red”) and lo and behold….there’s my phone. I think my heart jumped a little upon seeing it – flashing its cute little red e-mail indicator light. Yay! My phone! It’s here! I let the relief wash over me.
But as I was scrolling through my important emails from Zappos, Hotwire, iTunes and the like, I was a little disappointed. I was not going to have a day where I was “out” and unreachable.
I think tonight on the way home from the train station I will turn up my radio as loud as it can go, sing along, and not think about ringtones.
HOLY CRAP I LEFT MY PHONE AT HOME.
I began to panic and I broke out in a cold sweat. What if someone needs to reach me? What if I need to reach someone while I’m not near a land line? How will I keep in touch all day? As I sat there contemplating a day without my Blackberry, I began to try to remember the last time I was out in the world without a phone. 1997? 1996? Back when cell phones were new, and people only had them “in case of an emergency” my dad got the whole family bag phones. Remember the bag phone? It was freaking enormous, therefore rendering it an immobile phone. To carry it anywhere was like carrying a second briefcase, and twice as heavy. I had that phone in my car until probably 1995 or 1996, when my car was broken into on Sawyer Avenue and the bag phone was stolen by thugs. I figured the thugs would be easy to spot, lugging around a bag phone to make their drug deals. Oh well.
Regardless, up until 1996 or 1997 when I got my first StarTac phone, (which was totally portable, but only held a charge for like, 8 hours) when I went out into the world, I was unreachable. Yes – totally unreachable. Remember when we were kids, and you’d call a friend up only to be told they were “out”. Damn! She’s OUT!!!! When will she be back?? Oh man…I guess I will….HAVE. TO. WAIT.
And wait we did. Or even worse than the waiting for someone to get home was the dreaded busy signal. Do kids today even know what a busy signal sounds like? The advent of call waiting killed the busy signal. The busy signal did enjoy a brief resurgence, however, in the early 1990’s when dial-up internet was king. You’d be trying to get a hold of someone forever, only to be told that they had been chatting on AOL for 3 hours. Oh busy signal…we hardly knew ye.
A day at the mall was never interrupted by fighting children, inquisitive bosses, even more inquisitive mothers, or boundless e-mails from Horchow and FTD. And on the way home, you could listen to your music as loud as you wanted, because you didn’t have to constantly be listening for a ring tone. Hell, there was no such thing as a ring tone. You had to blindly pick up the phone and say hello to whoever was on the other end of the line, because you didn’t know who it was. It could be your best friend calling to tell you that the cute boy from gym class really likes you, or it could be your principal looking for your parents. Who knew?
As I finally talked myself off the “I left my phone at home” ledge, I realized that it would all be ok. One day without the Blackberry won’t kill me. It may aggravate me, but that’s ok. There are definitely WAY more important things in life. I reached into the center well of my purse for the book I’m currently reading (Ann Rule’s “Green River Running Red”) and lo and behold….there’s my phone. I think my heart jumped a little upon seeing it – flashing its cute little red e-mail indicator light. Yay! My phone! It’s here! I let the relief wash over me.
But as I was scrolling through my important emails from Zappos, Hotwire, iTunes and the like, I was a little disappointed. I was not going to have a day where I was “out” and unreachable.
I think tonight on the way home from the train station I will turn up my radio as loud as it can go, sing along, and not think about ringtones.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
For a foggy Wednesday
I have to get back into the blogging groove. Three months off has made me rusty (oil can…oil can…). I have a few commuting horror stories, but I will save them for an entire post about the assholes on my train. Then there are the assholes on the bus. Like the lady who kept asking her husband “do they have Target stores in Florida?”. Ugh. Ever hear of Google, bitch? Give it a try. And shut your insipid pie hole. She did a straight 20 minutes about baby formula and the airport. BABY FORMULA AND THE AIRPORT. I don’t know how her husband does it. Give that guy some kind of award for taking one for the team. (And by “team” I mean the entire human race).
Anywho…I decided that I will save all that stuff for later, and follow a lead from all my Facebook friends. There’s this post going around where people write 25 random things about themselves. I did one a couple of weeks ago, but thought it might be fun to do another one and post it here, so here goes….
25 Random Things About Me
1. My first dog was named Nokey. (I have no idea).
2. I eat pistachios for breakfast every morning.
3. Over the past 9 years I have lost 110 pounds.
4. I hate brussel sprouts. Vile weed!
5. My first car was a 1965 Chevy Impala – I loved it!
6. I’m pretty sure I suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder, but have never gotten an official diagnosis.
7. I would love to live in San Diego, if all my friends and family would go with me.
8. Whipped cream frosting beats the pants off buttercream any day of the week.
9. My sister can always make me laugh until I cry. She’s the funniest person on the planet.
10. My right foot is slightly bigger than my left.
11. My right boob is slightly bigger than my left.
12. I love to sing Karaoke and even KJ’d an ongoing Saturday night gig in Mt. Prospect.
13. I could listen to James Taylor sing forever. What a voice!
14. “The Loft” on Sirius satellite radio is NO replacement for “Sirius Disorder”.
15. If I had to choose to listen to only one Elvis, I would pick Costello.
16. As a kid, I thought The Knack’s “Good Girls Don’t” was the dirtiest song I ever heard. I kinda still do.
17. I love to tease my sister about her childhood crush on Vic Tayback (Mel, the cook on “Alice”).
18. She also had a crush on Abe Vigoda. No, I don’t know what was wrong with her.
19. When I was little, I was positive I was going to be famous when I grew up.
20. I once stuck my hands in some Whimsy Dip, and they were pink for a month.
21. I have a trophy for taking third place in the state competition for swimming in 8th grade.
22. I could easily live on appetizers and never eat a regular meal again.
23. I have had veggies and dip for dinner MANY TIMES.
24. I’m somewhat of a germaphobe.
25. In my 20’s, me and my best friend Sue used to crash parties by asking “Is Denny Murray here?”. They always let us in to check. Suckers!
Anywho…I decided that I will save all that stuff for later, and follow a lead from all my Facebook friends. There’s this post going around where people write 25 random things about themselves. I did one a couple of weeks ago, but thought it might be fun to do another one and post it here, so here goes….
25 Random Things About Me
1. My first dog was named Nokey. (I have no idea).
2. I eat pistachios for breakfast every morning.
3. Over the past 9 years I have lost 110 pounds.
4. I hate brussel sprouts. Vile weed!
5. My first car was a 1965 Chevy Impala – I loved it!
6. I’m pretty sure I suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder, but have never gotten an official diagnosis.
7. I would love to live in San Diego, if all my friends and family would go with me.
8. Whipped cream frosting beats the pants off buttercream any day of the week.
9. My sister can always make me laugh until I cry. She’s the funniest person on the planet.
10. My right foot is slightly bigger than my left.
11. My right boob is slightly bigger than my left.
12. I love to sing Karaoke and even KJ’d an ongoing Saturday night gig in Mt. Prospect.
13. I could listen to James Taylor sing forever. What a voice!
14. “The Loft” on Sirius satellite radio is NO replacement for “Sirius Disorder”.
15. If I had to choose to listen to only one Elvis, I would pick Costello.
16. As a kid, I thought The Knack’s “Good Girls Don’t” was the dirtiest song I ever heard. I kinda still do.
17. I love to tease my sister about her childhood crush on Vic Tayback (Mel, the cook on “Alice”).
18. She also had a crush on Abe Vigoda. No, I don’t know what was wrong with her.
19. When I was little, I was positive I was going to be famous when I grew up.
20. I once stuck my hands in some Whimsy Dip, and they were pink for a month.
21. I have a trophy for taking third place in the state competition for swimming in 8th grade.
22. I could easily live on appetizers and never eat a regular meal again.
23. I have had veggies and dip for dinner MANY TIMES.
24. I’m somewhat of a germaphobe.
25. In my 20’s, me and my best friend Sue used to crash parties by asking “Is Denny Murray here?”. They always let us in to check. Suckers!
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Over and out
I've been detoxing for 6 days now, and I thought I would share a few of the insights I have learned since I quit smoking.
1. Tomorrow will be one full week without smoking.
2. My hair is shinier and poofier since I quit.
3. People love to tell you that things are going to smell better and taste better. It’s crap.
4. However, now I can smell smokers. Yuck.
5. The Zyban is amazing, but when a craving does break through, I am powerless to stop it. The one last night made me cry.
6. I like that I can smell my own perfume.
7. I have chewed more gum in the past week than I have in the past 30 years.
8. My French manicure didn’t get yellowy this week. Huh.
9. Not once have I coughed in the morning since I quit.
10. It’s really strange staying in the office all day. I am used to knowing the temperature and whether or not it’s windy out – all day long.
2. My hair is shinier and poofier since I quit.
3. People love to tell you that things are going to smell better and taste better. It’s crap.
4. However, now I can smell smokers. Yuck.
5. The Zyban is amazing, but when a craving does break through, I am powerless to stop it. The one last night made me cry.
6. I like that I can smell my own perfume.
7. I have chewed more gum in the past week than I have in the past 30 years.
8. My French manicure didn’t get yellowy this week. Huh.
9. Not once have I coughed in the morning since I quit.
10. It’s really strange staying in the office all day. I am used to knowing the temperature and whether or not it’s windy out – all day long.
Monday, February 2, 2009
You've come a long way, baby.
Hi, my name is Kirstin and I'm a smoker.Well, was a smoker until January 30, 2009.
I know all the evils. I know it's a disgusting habit. But smoking is so goooooood.....
Enter my doctor and some pills from heaven. Zyban. Thank you baby Jesus for Zyban.
I am currently going through the back end of the DT's, but when I can gather my thoughts up in a coherent manner I will give you all the gory details of my quit.
Until then, smoke 'em if you got 'em - because I don't!! Whoo hoo!
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